October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to raise awareness, honor survivors, and highlight the often-overlooked impact domestic violence has on children. At Dolphin House Child Advocacy Center, we know that even when children are not the direct targets of violence, witnessing domestic violence is itself a form of trauma with serious and lasting effects.
Children Are Impacted Even When They Are Not Physically Harmed
Children who witness domestic violence may see, hear, or sense violence in their homes—through yelling, threats, physical harm, or emotional abuse. These experiences can disrupt a child’s sense of safety and stability. Research shows that children who witness domestic violence are at increased risk for:
- Anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress symptoms
- Behavioral challenges such as aggression, withdrawal, or difficulty concentrating
- Sleep disturbances and physical complaints
- Academic struggles and social difficulties
- Future exposure to violence, either as victims or witnesses
For children, home should be a place of comfort and security. When violence occurs there, it can change how a child views relationships, trust, and the world around them.
The Connection to Child Abuse
Domestic violence and child abuse often coexist. In many households where domestic violence is present, children may also experience physical abuse, emotional abuse, or neglect. Even when abuse is not directed at the child, the chronic stress of living in a violent environment can have developmental and emotional consequences similar to direct abuse.
Exposure to domestic violence is recognized as an Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE), which can increase the risk for long-term health and mental health challenges if left unaddressed.
How Support Makes a Difference
The presence of safe, supportive adults and early intervention can significantly reduce the impact of trauma on children. With the right support, children can heal, build resilience, and develop healthy relationships.
Supportive actions include:
- Believing and listening to children
- Providing consistent routines and reassurance
- Connecting families to trauma-informed mental health services
- Coordinating care across systems to reduce stress on the child
How You Can Help
This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, community members can take meaningful steps to support children and families:
- Learn the signs of domestic violence and child trauma
- Speak up if something doesn’t feel right—safety starts with awareness
- Support survivors with compassion and without judgment
- Promote safe environments in schools, organizations, and neighborhoods
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available:
- 📞 National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
- Text START to 88788 (available 24/7)
Dolphin House Stands With Children and Families
At Dolphin House Child Advocacy Center, we serve children who have been impacted by abuse and violence in their homes, including those who witness domestic violence. Our multidisciplinary approach ensures children receive compassionate advocacy and access to resources that support healing and long-term well-being.
This October, we invite our community to stand with survivors, protect children, and work together to break the cycle of violence. Every child deserves a home filled with safety, stability, and peace. 💙